CONFIDANTS, ACCOMPLICES AND COLLEAGUES

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Everybody desires to find solace and to be loved by people around them, at times, during times when our heart is heavy with burdens, we tend to look out for people who we can share our burden with, times when fresh insight is on us, we look at for people who will understand our heavy hearts and buy into it.
But when we share it with the wrong people, it could be lead us into been mocked or discouraged.

in life, the earlier we start knowing the roles different people plays in ones life, the easier we know how to follow them according to how we classify them.

1) The Confidants: These are the first set of people whom we can share our burden with, they cry when cry, laugh when we laugh, they rebuke our pride and comfort our grief. These set of persons are not too many in a man's life, they could be ranging from 1 to 3 persons, and if you have up to three of them, you are really blessed. They stay with even times of your mistakes and don't give up on you. They are the people who can risk their lives for you.

2) The Accomplices: These are the second set of people who can never remain with you forever, they are with you when you run a business that they are interested in, they support you only when it is in line with their own vision. They stay for a while in most cases and move on to other people that have higher achievements than yours once they are connected to them. They exist only for a while in your life and of course, you have a common enemy with them. If you share your vision with these set of persons, they can run away with it and go and run with it.

3) The Colleagues:  These are the set of people who only work with you, if you share your visions with them, they may not even care to look into it, they are only good in working along side with you on the neutral ground. you can't bring them so close because they won't show commitment to anything about you.

Finally, Lets test everyone who comes close to use so that we won't make a mistake of making someone who have no connection to you your confidant. Anyone who doesn't cry when you cry is for sure not your confidant.

EVANG ABRAHAM CHIMNADINDU
Generation of Power National Cordinator

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